Like the Joker from Batman, sometimes we’re just reacting to what comes up and running around without a plan.
“Life would be infinitely happier if we could only be born at the age of eighty and gradually approach eighteen.” — Mark Twain Sure, there are creaky bones, names flying out of the head, and deepening wrinkles. But recently many people I know have acknowledged the delights of aging. There is so much more! I’ve[…]
Once we see we have options we’re free! We can play with the possibilities, choosing who to be and what to do.
Doing more or trying harder is often the default. Do the opposite instead. Pause and Relax. Results guaranteed.
Beyond data, are nudges, sixth sense, and intuition as guidance. They often knock at the door of our subconscious to support us, inviting us to proceed in a more fully powerful way.
When we’re in conflict with another, our hearts can offer another perspective.
Celebrating each small win brings joy and feeds the soul.
“There’s so much I could learn from him, if he didn’t drive me crazy,” said a coaching client about his colleague. “What are all the cool things you would learn?” I asked. “What if your desire to learn could swallow your resistance in the moment?” What a great lesson from this client: It takes putting[…]
When Martin, a leader in his company, came for coaching, he felt stalled and immobilized. He was a good man who had difficulty believing success and happiness were possible. He was going through the motions of being a leader, and became so self-focused that he spent an inordinate amount of time trying to prove himself.[…]
What might we cling to so tightly that we don’t know we are missing a vast possibility of choices?